Families face challenges from time to time. Some common challenges families face in addition to managing chronic pain include things like moving house, separation or divorce, parenting issues, pressure at work or school, unemployment and financial problems, illness or disability of a family member, death of a family member, drug, alcohol, gambling addiction, and domestic violence.
A problem or challenge in one area of your life can also affect other parts. Some problems can drain a lot of your energy and coping resources. It can make you so tired that you might not deal effectively with other stressful things that could be happening like conflicts with friends, exams, or assessment tasks. Sometimes when we are struggling to cope with our pain we might also become a bit more irritable with our family and less able to handle frustrations
Now that you have considered how stressful challenges can be, talk to your family. They may have some solutions or can assist in finding and accessing help outside of the family.
Just like you can be more short tempered when you are dealing with the challenge of your pain, your family may be short tempered, argue or be upset related to a whole range of stresses and challenges, and your pain is only one of these. So if family members are stressed, it might be for many reasons other than your pain. If things are particularly stressful at home and you were worried about bothering your family with your problems, there are other places where you can get support – for example your school counsellor and your GP. They can help you access other help too. There’s also lots of help out there for families. Have a look at the handout for a few ideas.
Family problems and how to solve them -Definition and Classification-
The family
The family is the nucleus of human society , the main incubator of its members and an essential source of happiness, tranquility and stability for them. But there is almost no family without differences or problems from time to time. Differences of opinion from the Sunnah of God in creation, God has created different human beings, each person has his own personality traits and tendencies, which is different from the other, you see the husband loves something that the wife does not like In the eyes of children, they want to do business that parents do not want. [1]
Definition of family problems
Family problems means a kind of troubled relationship between family members which in turn leads to tensions, whether these problems result from the misconduct of a family member or the two main parties, and the frequent quarrels and differences between parents, or between children or between children and parents Make the family in turmoil, and lose the children’s prestige, respect and belonging to the family. [2]
Family problems are defined by several definitions, including: (situations and critical and puzzling issues facing the individual require a solution, and reduce the vitality and effectiveness and production and the degree of adaptation to himself and with the community in which he lives). [3]
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